"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hypnosis? On you I mean. How effective is it?

IamtheAlphamale

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How effective is it to get hypnotised so that you can have more motivation doing something like quiting smoking?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Its something you have to make a habit of. It is not some "miracle" brain changer like people make it out to be. Its subtle, but it does work. I've done lots of self hypnosis, and I have noticed its effects, if I do the same thing a bunch of times. There are downloadable Self hypnosis audio's online. Some are relatively cheap, around 10 bucks. Put your headphones on and lay on the couch, and listen. If your motivated enough to do it once a day for a couple weeks, you will notice it. If youre doing it to quit smoking, use it as a suppliment to whatever method you're using to quit.
I've never been to the "professionals" that claim you will never want another smoke again after one session, but I've heard it doesnt work that way. They charge 60$ and up for each session, but you can get a recorded version of the same session and do it yourself for far less money.
 

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Research it. For some people it does wonders. - I'm not one of those people.
 

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Yo so basically what your saying is.. I could record myself saying like.. "I am the prize, I am the great catch, She wants to have sex with me, she wants a relationship with me, I am motivated, I will achieve my goals and surpass my goals, I will make my dreams reality, I am the alpha male." And all I have to do is make this an audio clip and I will hypnotize myself?
 

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IamtheAlphamale said:
Yo so basically what your saying is.. I could record myself saying like.. "I am the prize, I am the great catch, She wants to have sex with me, she wants a relationship with me, I am motivated, I will achieve my goals and surpass my goals, I will make my dreams reality, I am the alpha male." And all I have to do is make this an audio clip and I will hypnotize myself?
It's a bit more complicated then that. Do some reasearch, there is a ton of material out there.

Personally, I don't like the whole self hypnosis b/c it often gives people an altered view of the world. You may start thinking you're the alpha male, but you still won't be acting like one... this will just lead to problems.

Use the brain you have, don't mess with it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dont forget that are are constantly being hypnotized by advertising, media. If you use hypnosis to up your self esteem, or think positive, boost confidence it can be a great tool. Basicly what we're all doing on this site is trying to beat stuff into our heads about facing fears, and not being wusses etc. All this info has to go through our concious mind, and hopefully embed itself into our subconcious. With hypnosis, information goes straight to the subconcious. What we're all trying to do here is change the way we think. Hypnosis is just a more direct way to do it. Like I said, its subtle. It takes 21 days to make or break a habit. If you do a "think positive" hypnosis every day for 21 days, you will be a WAY more positive person. Theres no way it can hurt you.
 
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