"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hypnosis? On you I mean. How effective is it?

IamtheAlphamale

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How effective is it to get hypnotised so that you can have more motivation doing something like quiting smoking?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Its something you have to make a habit of. It is not some "miracle" brain changer like people make it out to be. Its subtle, but it does work. I've done lots of self hypnosis, and I have noticed its effects, if I do the same thing a bunch of times. There are downloadable Self hypnosis audio's online. Some are relatively cheap, around 10 bucks. Put your headphones on and lay on the couch, and listen. If your motivated enough to do it once a day for a couple weeks, you will notice it. If youre doing it to quit smoking, use it as a suppliment to whatever method you're using to quit.
I've never been to the "professionals" that claim you will never want another smoke again after one session, but I've heard it doesnt work that way. They charge 60$ and up for each session, but you can get a recorded version of the same session and do it yourself for far less money.
 

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Research it. For some people it does wonders. - I'm not one of those people.
 

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Yo so basically what your saying is.. I could record myself saying like.. "I am the prize, I am the great catch, She wants to have sex with me, she wants a relationship with me, I am motivated, I will achieve my goals and surpass my goals, I will make my dreams reality, I am the alpha male." And all I have to do is make this an audio clip and I will hypnotize myself?
 

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IamtheAlphamale said:
Yo so basically what your saying is.. I could record myself saying like.. "I am the prize, I am the great catch, She wants to have sex with me, she wants a relationship with me, I am motivated, I will achieve my goals and surpass my goals, I will make my dreams reality, I am the alpha male." And all I have to do is make this an audio clip and I will hypnotize myself?
It's a bit more complicated then that. Do some reasearch, there is a ton of material out there.

Personally, I don't like the whole self hypnosis b/c it often gives people an altered view of the world. You may start thinking you're the alpha male, but you still won't be acting like one... this will just lead to problems.

Use the brain you have, don't mess with it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dont forget that are are constantly being hypnotized by advertising, media. If you use hypnosis to up your self esteem, or think positive, boost confidence it can be a great tool. Basicly what we're all doing on this site is trying to beat stuff into our heads about facing fears, and not being wusses etc. All this info has to go through our concious mind, and hopefully embed itself into our subconcious. With hypnosis, information goes straight to the subconcious. What we're all trying to do here is change the way we think. Hypnosis is just a more direct way to do it. Like I said, its subtle. It takes 21 days to make or break a habit. If you do a "think positive" hypnosis every day for 21 days, you will be a WAY more positive person. Theres no way it can hurt you.
 
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