"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bokanovsky said:
Sounds like you are the one who is a bit of a pvssy.
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I appreciate your candor, although you sound like an idiot. What would you recommend disciplining them for?

Your high quality insight is appreciated.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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origin138 said:
I appreciate your candor, although you sound like an idiot. What would you recommend disciplining them for?
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Umm, how about not doing their job properly? If they are making trips to the surgeon's office when it's not necessary and an email or telephone call would suffice, they are clearly wasting time that could be used for other tasks. I may be an "idiot" but even I know that this is not productive.
 
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Hitting on clients is a big no-no. Lucky for you this surgeon / client is single. If he were in a LTR or married, it'd simply take a few words from his jealous wife / GF for you to lose that fat contract. Or maybe one of his assistants might have the hots for him and hate your female staff for hitting on him, and try to sabotage your contract. Hell, maybe his colleagues' wives have seen it and may put a word or two in their husbands' ears about not using your service. Either way, discipline your staff, don't let them do this, it's not good for your bottom line.
 
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Hitting on clients is a big no-no. Lucky for you this surgeon / client is single. If he were in a LTR or married, it'd simply take a few words from his jealous wife / GF for you to lose that fat contract. Or maybe one of his assistants might have the hots for him and hate your female staff for hitting on him, and try to sabotage your contract. Hell, maybe his colleagues' wives have seen it and may put a word or two in their husbands' ears about not using your service. Either way, discipline your staff, don't let them do this, it's not good for your bottom line.
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Well said.
 
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