"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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origin138

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Bokanovsky said:
Sounds like you are the one who is a bit of a pvssy.
I appreciate your candor, although you sound like an idiot. What would you recommend disciplining them for?

Your high quality insight is appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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origin138 said:
I appreciate your candor, although you sound like an idiot. What would you recommend disciplining them for?
Umm, how about not doing their job properly? If they are making trips to the surgeon's office when it's not necessary and an email or telephone call would suffice, they are clearly wasting time that could be used for other tasks. I may be an "idiot" but even I know that this is not productive.
 
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Hitting on clients is a big no-no. Lucky for you this surgeon / client is single. If he were in a LTR or married, it'd simply take a few words from his jealous wife / GF for you to lose that fat contract. Or maybe one of his assistants might have the hots for him and hate your female staff for hitting on him, and try to sabotage your contract. Hell, maybe his colleagues' wives have seen it and may put a word or two in their husbands' ears about not using your service. Either way, discipline your staff, don't let them do this, it's not good for your bottom line.
 

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Jitterbug said:
Hitting on clients is a big no-no. Lucky for you this surgeon / client is single. If he were in a LTR or married, it'd simply take a few words from his jealous wife / GF for you to lose that fat contract. Or maybe one of his assistants might have the hots for him and hate your female staff for hitting on him, and try to sabotage your contract. Hell, maybe his colleagues' wives have seen it and may put a word or two in their husbands' ears about not using your service. Either way, discipline your staff, don't let them do this, it's not good for your bottom line.
Well said.
 
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