You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thats good. I was observing Whats said.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Very true
Do you really care if you get praise or criticism unless it affects your freedom?
Well, if your doing what you are supposed to as a man, and still recieving nothing but critism, it can affect the opinions of those we interact with and it's also demotivating over time. We don't do things to get pats the back, but when we make a strong committment and still slandered, and also paying for negative consequences due to this slander, it can take the juice out of you over time.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Exactly, it indirectly affects all men regardless if you care about these things or not.
The book 'The Manipulated Man' asks the question "why don't men praise each other?"
Some of us secure men do issue complements and praise to other men. But in other men, it's in their competitive nature to not make a comment that will make another feel too good.
Don't base your sense of self on what anyone says about you. Whether its a guy or girl talking to you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Slavery isn't terrible if the benefits are greater than your "free" life. But this is not how it goes down. Most women will treat the ensnared man worse than almost anyone else that she doesn't control. Sex and affection used to capture him will be reduced and removed when she has him in place.
I don't. Im internally validated. I make notes on who attempts to reduce that.
true this is. being from the provider group it is a painful reality. I have understanding, but not yet peace with it. Nice post.
All your good for is providing?
haha, nope. I am good at that. It is just the ENTIRE red pill stack that has caused me rage and pain x1000, only those that have been through it can know. I have more chapters still to unfold. "being FROM" means before. It is not theory, it is real. Before I was lost, I am not lost now, but I don't like the place where I have awoken; some of the actors I can not yet comprehend the evil(actually evil is not the right word but I don't know what is the right word). bla bla bla bla... and so on.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.