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On another forum it was mentioned as a whole husband and boyfriends are not being praised. That a "hive mind" is responsible for this. Women are joining in on tear downs and never saying anything positive. Something stinks. When all these ungrateful ladies complaining you never hear any chime up and give her own man merit. Is there truth to this?

It seems like a stinking agenda.
 

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I have been praised a lot both when I was alone with an ex and in public by them.
I don't care if they don't praise me on some forum.
I mean, how many times are guys praising women on this forum and how many times are they b1tching about them?
 

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I have been praised a lot both when I was alone with an ex and in public by them.
I don't care if they don't praise me on some forum.
I mean, how many times are guys praising women on this forum and how many times are they b1tching about them?
Thats good. I was observing Whats said.
 

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The thread mentioned it's not that you don't hear it on the web. It's that we don't hear on ANY media. News, print, etc, tv shows , movies. They felt it's almost an agenda. But you will hear negativity.
 

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Yeah I agree. The feminist narrative has always setup fake holidays to praise women in various ways. It has run several ads and commercials to boost and praise women. Nothing for men...

It would be great if we could even have one "Support your guy" holiday where women would go to the gun range, go fishing, bowling, hunting, off roading, etc. with us. LOL

I feel these days, everyone else is getting support and praise except straight men.
 

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Yeah I agree. The feminist narrative has always setup fake holidays to praise women in various ways. It has run several ads and commercials to boost and praise women. Nothing for men...

It would be great if we could even have one "Support your guy" holiday where women would go to the gun range, go fishing, bowling, hunting, off roading, etc. with us. LOL

I feel these days, everyone else is getting support and praise except straight men.
Do you really care if you get praise or criticism unless it affects your freedom?
 

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Do you really care if you get praise or criticism unless it affects your freedom?
Well, if your doing what you are supposed to as a man, and still recieving nothing but critism, it can affect the opinions of those we interact with and it's also demotivating over time. We don't do things to get pats the back, but when we make a strong committment and still slandered, and also paying for negative consequences due to this slander, it can take the juice out of you over time.
 

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Well, if your doing what you are supposed to as a man, and still recieving nothing but critism, it can affect the opinions of those we interact with and it's also demotivating over time. We don't do things to get pats the back, but when we make a strong committment and still slandered, and also paying for negative consequences due to this slander, it can take the juice out of you over time.
Exactly, it indirectly affects all men regardless if you care about these things or not.

Look at all that pink crap that some beta NFL sports execs caved into from their wives. Men playing manly games wearing pink to support breast cancer for women? C'mon. They should be wearing and promoting colors to support prostate cancer that actually affects men and that helps men out with additional awareness, funding, research, etc.

That's not to say there isn't a place for breast cancer awareness for women but it's better suited in areas like Tennis, golf, etc., Not NFL IMO...

Then men get slapped in the face when trying to support women by false accusations from jilted former chearleaders, domestic battery charges without due process, visiting massage parlors, etc. You'd think with the amount of support that women get through a predominantly male dominated sports and audience, women would be less viscious and conniving... Nope
 

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I get plenty of praise and appreciation from my woman, and she is a staunch feminist. It's just that she's not a radical feminist.

There is actually a hive mind, and it's the collectivist minds of all the leftists who would rather be given everything at the cost of their freedom.

There is no 'agenda' though. I don't think people sat down and said "this is what we want to do". It's more an organic coalescing of morons that cause the agenda to exist by their mutual screeching. The hive mind has no agenda as such, only an expression of its will.

Any woman that acts like this deserves nothing at all. Don't reward bad behavior.
 

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I had to think about this one a little. Just a few minutes.

More about how to say what my take is than anything. The wording is important.

Form in your mind a “stratosphere”. It’s all the men in this sphere.
Then just above it there is an “Upper-Stratosphere”.
In this Upper stratosphere there are the women.

In the women’s sphere there is a collective and unspoken world. It obtains it’s power from the lower stratosphere, men. In this world of women biology and existence, there is an optimum survival condition that is pursued at a very deep level. This level is made up of provider + unlimited potential for males to breed with. A woman can have just one man but there is a possibility that she can be abandoned if she tries to optimize it with Provider + Breeder men.

Outside this higher stratosphere are men standing just outside that sphere. They are not in the lower sphere with the rest of the males. These are the breeders. It’s a secret.

The bulk of men who are down in the lower sphere are subjects to be used for survival. Emotionally and resource driven subjects.

The men in the lower sphere are not as valuable as men just outside their sphere. Procreation means. But they still have to have shelter and safety from a dangerous world.

Men at this lower level are now trying to escape it. The whole reason for all of this is to keep men within their lower sphere. If she elevates him too much, he will pop out of it and stand outside the women’s upper sphere leaving fewer men to provide for them. Thus she can not build him up too much because she can loose him.

The purpose is to have a provider + Breeding males to procreate with while keeping other men ignorant.

This is not necessarily done on purpose or is some sinister plot. Not like that. In fact, many women are oblivious to this. They only know what they feel. Their biology will guide them.
 

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Do you really care if you get praise or criticism unless it affects your freedom?
The book 'The Manipulated Man' asks the question "why don't men praise each other?"
 

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Nice. It’s a competition to see who wants to be enslaved to the hottest woman.
There’s a few paragraphs on why men seek to enslave themselves in the book.
Slavery isn't terrible if the benefits are greater than your "free" life. But this is not how it goes down. Most women will treat the ensnared man worse than almost anyone else that she doesn't control. Sex and affection used to capture him will be reduced and removed when she has him in place.
 

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This is not necessarily done on purpose or is some sinister plot. Not like that. In fact, many women are oblivious to this. They only know what they feel. Their biology will guide them.
true this is. being from the provider group it is a painful reality. I have understanding, but not yet peace with it. Nice post.
 
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