MatureDJ
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Evidently that guy had a sex drive like a male Black Widow spider - bodily injury as the reward for sex. :crazy:Proselytiser said:My dad was a cop in England. They got a call every now and again from a woman (a bodybuilder) who said she had been beaten by her boyfriend. It was her that had been beating the boyfriend, but the police could not prove either one. Eventually the woman got a restraining order on her boyfriend, but then every time she got drunk, she called him saying she was sorry and still loved him and to come over, where she'd promptly beat him again, the cops would be called, the guy accused of beating the woman and they would tell the guy 'just don't go there, ever, under any circumstance'.
Nevertheless he wen't back about 20 times to her house and was beaten senseless each and every time