Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hurting her by accident

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Here is a short story about something that happened when i went swimming witha few friends.
I went with this lass that i like and we was pushing each other in and stuff like that, stuff that you do when you go swimming.
I pushed her in but she got caught on my wrist locker key and hurt her hand (baddish). What would you then say. Sorry is an obvious one but she got a bit p*ssed off and gave me a bit of a dirty luck.
What would you have done ??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She continued to be p*ssed off for quite a while which made it a bit awkward and made me feel guilty.
 
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First of ALL NEVER SAY SORRY!!!
You should have made fun of her for crying about a little cut. and if all else fails GET MAD AT HER!!! <---always works!!!;)
 
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Crazy situation on your hands. Nothing spectacular that you can say to her. Just say " My wrist lock locked on to you like a magnet to metal. Are you going to be okay?"
 
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Whyshy - i should hav laughed at her, shouldn't I. The question sounded a bit silly but it happens now and then. It gets a bit awkward after, especially if you hurt her badly. Cheers
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good oportunity to do some kino. You should have playfully said "want me to kiss it and make it better"
 
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"baddish"

Kissing it would be kinda out of place...esp. if what I'd imagine is her bleeding everywhere or something. (if it's a scratch..then yess)
 
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Originally posted by Docs
"baddish"

Kissing it would be kinda out of place...esp. if what I'd imagine is her bleeding everywhere or something. (if it's a scratch..then yess)
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I think baddish means a light scrape
 
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when she gets mad at you..get mad right back she will definatly suck up to you and not be mad at you anymore and she will try to make you unmad..trust me it works becuase ive done it many times
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by whyshy
First of ALL NEVER SAY SORRY!!!
You should have made fun of her for crying about a little cut. and if all else fails GET MAD AT HER!!! <---always works!!!;)
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You misunderstand that whole element. When the Bible or whoever first said it says not to say sorry, they mean for something stupid that AFCs generally apologize for. If you actually hurt someone, apologize, girl or not.

Unless it is just a little scrape/cut. Then it's okay to playfully make fun of her, etc.
 
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