"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hurting her by accident

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Here is a short story about something that happened when i went swimming witha few friends.
I went with this lass that i like and we was pushing each other in and stuff like that, stuff that you do when you go swimming.
I pushed her in but she got caught on my wrist locker key and hurt her hand (baddish). What would you then say. Sorry is an obvious one but she got a bit p*ssed off and gave me a bit of a dirty luck.
What would you have done ??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She continued to be p*ssed off for quite a while which made it a bit awkward and made me feel guilty.
 
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First of ALL NEVER SAY SORRY!!!
You should have made fun of her for crying about a little cut. and if all else fails GET MAD AT HER!!! <---always works!!!;)
 
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Crazy situation on your hands. Nothing spectacular that you can say to her. Just say " My wrist lock locked on to you like a magnet to metal. Are you going to be okay?"
 
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Whyshy - i should hav laughed at her, shouldn't I. The question sounded a bit silly but it happens now and then. It gets a bit awkward after, especially if you hurt her badly. Cheers
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good oportunity to do some kino. You should have playfully said "want me to kiss it and make it better"
 
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"baddish"

Kissing it would be kinda out of place...esp. if what I'd imagine is her bleeding everywhere or something. (if it's a scratch..then yess)
 
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Originally posted by Docs
"baddish"

Kissing it would be kinda out of place...esp. if what I'd imagine is her bleeding everywhere or something. (if it's a scratch..then yess)
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I think baddish means a light scrape
 
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when she gets mad at you..get mad right back she will definatly suck up to you and not be mad at you anymore and she will try to make you unmad..trust me it works becuase ive done it many times
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by whyshy
First of ALL NEVER SAY SORRY!!!
You should have made fun of her for crying about a little cut. and if all else fails GET MAD AT HER!!! <---always works!!!;)
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You misunderstand that whole element. When the Bible or whoever first said it says not to say sorry, they mean for something stupid that AFCs generally apologize for. If you actually hurt someone, apologize, girl or not.

Unless it is just a little scrape/cut. Then it's okay to playfully make fun of her, etc.
 
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