"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hunger while Cutting

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If I'm feeling strong hunger pangs later in the evening, especially before bed, is that a sign that my calorie deficit is too large and I'm losing muscle, or is that expected?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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2100 at 160 15%bf cycling yohimbe w/ ephedrine + caffeine
 

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If I'm feeling strong hunger pangs later in the evening, especially before bed, is that a sign that my calorie deficit is too large and I'm losing muscle, or is that expected?
Depends at what stage you are at while cutting. At 15 % bf you shouldn't need to be feeling hunger pains, save your strict dieting and heavy cardio for getting into sub 10 % bf if that's your aim. Don't cut carbs too quickly, this is a long haul thing and you need to preserve/gain muscle. IMO at this level cutting per se isn't necessary, getting to a leanish 12 % bf is a good idea.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If I'm feeling strong hunger pangs later in the evening, especially before bed, is that a sign that my calorie deficit is too large and I'm losing muscle, or is that expected?
How many meals/day do you eat?

The time between your last meal and when you go to bed is too far apart I'm thinking. Since going to bed hungry isn't a good idea.. When this happens to me I eat some baby carrots or some small veggie snack if I get hungry immediately before bed.

Ideally the last meal of the day would be close enough to bedtime to not be hungry but not IMMEDIATELY before bed (correct me if I'm wrong.. but even eating a chicken breast and some veggies and then going to bed right away isn't a good idea right?).
 

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aiming for six a day with protein included in each meal, no simple sugars, only veggies as carbs after 5pm etc. So I guess the simple answer to the question is I should be eating a bit more?
 
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