"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Met this girl. We went out and she brought her friend...is it bad if i give her a goodbye hug?. she was with her friend. I didnt give a good bye hug to her friend, just her. Was a too aggressive?? This is killing me..i dont know if what i did was right. comments are welcome.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Was she into the hug? Did she look apprehensive? Did she try to squirm away?
 
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Man, this is nothing to agonise about. It's your attitude when you do something that counts -- were you being needy?

In any case go stare at the stars and realise what a tiny little thing it is.
 
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Don't think on this one too much. It's not bad that you gave a goodbye hug. In fact, it doesn't matter if you hugged her friend or not either.

By hugging you're just showing that you don't take yourself so serious and you're fun. Next time you hug her have fun with it, for instance, sometimes I'll go in for the hug but I won't hug her, I'll just stick my arms out to my side and laugh while she just hugs my body and waits. Then she gets the point and laughs with me, ridiculing me. Then point at her friend and say, "Awwww you must want a hug too huh? Come here!"

Point is, have fun with everything you do, and don't take this so serious. If you normally hug girls then hug! If you normally shake hands then do do so.
 
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theunflushables said:
Was she into the hug? Did she look apprehensive? Did she try to squirm away?
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no i think i took her by surprised.
i have no idea i couldnt see her face when i hug her
no she didnt.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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escaleraroyal said:
no i think i took her by surprised.
i have no idea i couldnt see her face when i hug her
no she didnt.
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Then no harm done. Don't fret about it.
 
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oh well. she responded it. she was busy with exams...again i m abck on track.
gotta ask her out again now.
 
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