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[escaleraroyal]

Met this girl. We went out and she brought her friend...is it bad if i give her a goodbye hug?. she was with her friend. I didnt give a good bye hug to her friend, just her. Was a too aggressive?? This is killing me..i dont know if what i did was right. comments are welcome.

 

[theunflushables]

Was she into the hug? Did she look apprehensive? Did she try to squirm away?

 

[Gubby]

Man, this is nothing to agonise about. It's your attitude when you do something that counts -- were you being needy?

In any case go stare at the stars and realise what a tiny little thing it is.

 

[Social Calibration]

Don't think on this one too much. It's not bad that you gave a goodbye hug. In fact, it doesn't matter if you hugged her friend or not either.

By hugging you're just showing that you don't take yourself so serious and you're fun. Next time you hug her have fun with it, for instance, sometimes I'll go in for the hug but I won't hug her, I'll just stick my arms out to my side and laugh while she just hugs my body and waits. Then she gets the point and laughs with me, ridiculing me. Then point at her friend and say, "Awwww you must want a hug too huh? Come here!"

Point is, have fun with everything you do, and don't take this so serious. If you normally hug girls then hug! If you normally shake hands then do do so.

 

[escaleraroyal]

Was she into the hug? Did she look apprehensive? Did she try to squirm away?

no i think i took her by surprised.
i have no idea i couldnt see her face when i hug her
no she didnt.

 

[theunflushables]

no i think i took her by surprised.
i have no idea i couldnt see her face when i hug her
no she didnt.

Then no harm done. Don't fret about it.

 

[escaleraroyal]

oh well. she responded it. she was busy with exams...again i m abck on track.
gotta ask her out again now.