BuddhaSMASH
Don Juan
I'm on a dinosaur of a computer that doesn't get along well with Adobe Acrobat or MSWord. Is there an HTML version of the Boot Camp?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
HTML Boot camp?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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<title>My website is my only friend</title>
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<font color="red" size="3" face="arial">hey mr. toilet, im the ****, got these other rappers pissed, cuz my toilet paper thick</font>
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<font color="black" size="2" face="arial">Welcome to my first website blah blah blah blah blah blah blah yay</font>
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<font size="1" face="arial">Copyright 2005</font>
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<title>My website is my only friend</title>
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<body>
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<font color="red" size="3" face="arial">hey mr. toilet, im the ****, got these other rappers pissed, cuz my toilet paper thick</font>
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<BR>
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<font color="black" size="2" face="arial">Welcome to my first website blah blah blah blah blah blah blah yay</font>
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<center>
<font size="1" face="arial">Copyright 2005</font>
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</body>
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BuddhaSMASH
Don Juan
That wasn't anything even approaching helpful.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Nicholas Hill
Master Don Juan
I have converted the boot camp to html format for you. It is now accessible from the Bible main page or from the link below:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/DJBC/djbc.htm
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/DJBC/djbc.htm