"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HS winterball. Know date dont' know friends.

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I'm going to our school's Winterball with a friend of mine "a girl". I know her pretty well and we chat and stuff, but i'm not acquainted with most of her friends, the ones who we will be sitting on the table with. I'm generally a quiet person in school and am shy meeting new people. I know all of them but i dont' talk to all of them. Should I talk to them before winterball or just get to know them better at the event. Note: Winterball is in 5 days for me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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time to get over your pvssyness and start up a couple of smooth convos...my advice to you in these 5 days is read the djbible, and hit the gym/excersize as it boosts up your confidence, and not jack off.


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Why shouldn't I jack off. I'm on my school's paddling team in Hawaii so i've been working out and buffing up. But that also cuts the amount of free time i have down to like 0 b/c school is killer (crazy private school). But also what does jacking off do with anything?
 
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keep your testostrone high






...jeez fine if jacking off is so crucial to you then go ahead and bust your balls off :rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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