"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HS winterball. Know date dont' know friends.

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I'm going to our school's Winterball with a friend of mine "a girl". I know her pretty well and we chat and stuff, but i'm not acquainted with most of her friends, the ones who we will be sitting on the table with. I'm generally a quiet person in school and am shy meeting new people. I know all of them but i dont' talk to all of them. Should I talk to them before winterball or just get to know them better at the event. Note: Winterball is in 5 days for me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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time to get over your pvssyness and start up a couple of smooth convos...my advice to you in these 5 days is read the djbible, and hit the gym/excersize as it boosts up your confidence, and not jack off.


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Why shouldn't I jack off. I'm on my school's paddling team in Hawaii so i've been working out and buffing up. But that also cuts the amount of free time i have down to like 0 b/c school is killer (crazy private school). But also what does jacking off do with anything?
 
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keep your testostrone high






...jeez fine if jacking off is so crucial to you then go ahead and bust your balls off :rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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