"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HS winterball. Know date dont' know friends.

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I'm going to our school's Winterball with a friend of mine "a girl". I know her pretty well and we chat and stuff, but i'm not acquainted with most of her friends, the ones who we will be sitting on the table with. I'm generally a quiet person in school and am shy meeting new people. I know all of them but i dont' talk to all of them. Should I talk to them before winterball or just get to know them better at the event. Note: Winterball is in 5 days for me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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time to get over your pvssyness and start up a couple of smooth convos...my advice to you in these 5 days is read the djbible, and hit the gym/excersize as it boosts up your confidence, and not jack off.


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Why shouldn't I jack off. I'm on my school's paddling team in Hawaii so i've been working out and buffing up. But that also cuts the amount of free time i have down to like 0 b/c school is killer (crazy private school). But also what does jacking off do with anything?
 
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keep your testostrone high






...jeez fine if jacking off is so crucial to you then go ahead and bust your balls off :rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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