"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i have never read somtin as good as the bible thing and i have changed my style and so forth

now u all know for the last couple of days i have been talking to a girl and asked her to chill and she said sure... now i have devised a message that has been un-sent... now tell me how is this for asking her out (using tips i have learned)


"sometime this week or next u gonna come an over and swim wit me and chill,watch a movie go out for a walk or somtin and we are going to have a blast

i got a car (my truck is getting repaired and i might drive my dads truck or somtin cuz the car aint anything special)

so dont make any plans cuz soon we are gonna chill"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Grover_mister said:
i have never read somtin as good as the bible thing and i have changed my style and so forth

now u all know for the last couple of days i have been talking to a girl and asked her to chill and she said sure... now i have devised a message that has been un-sent... now tell me how is this for asking her out (using tips i have learned)
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Don't send a message. If there were already something between you ok, but at this point you wanna show you have the balls to tell her with your own voice.

Grover_mister said:
"sometime this week or next u gonna come an over and swim wit me and chill,watch a movie go out for a walk or somtin and we are going to have a blast
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Wait, so what are you gonna do? When are you gonna do it? It's ok to give her some options but don't give her too many. See it sounds like you're trying too hard to find something she wants to do and a day she's free. How about "Saturday or Sunday I'm going swimming. You should come or come with". That indicates that you're going swimming regardless of her. She's an afterthought.

Also, unless you regularly talk to each other using "wit" or "somtin", use complete words :p

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i got a car (my truck is getting repaired and i might drive my dads truck or somtin cuz the car aint anything special)
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I don't really understand why you mention this? If there's a doubt whether you have a car, just slip it in. "I'm driving to the lake for a swim".

Grover_mister said:
so dont make any plans cuz soon we are gonna chill"
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So she shouldn't make plans for this week or the next? Again, give her a specific date or two. If she has plans already, she'll tell you. If she doesn't, and she's interested, it's a given that she won't make other plans.

Anyway, just some thoughts. Don't overthink things either or you'll freeze. You'll make mistakes, but that'll just make you better.
Keep it up and take her down!
 
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