"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Grover_mister

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i have never read somtin as good as the bible thing and i have changed my style and so forth

now u all know for the last couple of days i have been talking to a girl and asked her to chill and she said sure... now i have devised a message that has been un-sent... now tell me how is this for asking her out (using tips i have learned)


"sometime this week or next u gonna come an over and swim wit me and chill,watch a movie go out for a walk or somtin and we are going to have a blast

i got a car (my truck is getting repaired and i might drive my dads truck or somtin cuz the car aint anything special)

so dont make any plans cuz soon we are gonna chill"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Grover_mister said:
i have never read somtin as good as the bible thing and i have changed my style and so forth

now u all know for the last couple of days i have been talking to a girl and asked her to chill and she said sure... now i have devised a message that has been un-sent... now tell me how is this for asking her out (using tips i have learned)
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Don't send a message. If there were already something between you ok, but at this point you wanna show you have the balls to tell her with your own voice.

Grover_mister said:
"sometime this week or next u gonna come an over and swim wit me and chill,watch a movie go out for a walk or somtin and we are going to have a blast
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Wait, so what are you gonna do? When are you gonna do it? It's ok to give her some options but don't give her too many. See it sounds like you're trying too hard to find something she wants to do and a day she's free. How about "Saturday or Sunday I'm going swimming. You should come or come with". That indicates that you're going swimming regardless of her. She's an afterthought.

Also, unless you regularly talk to each other using "wit" or "somtin", use complete words :p

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i got a car (my truck is getting repaired and i might drive my dads truck or somtin cuz the car aint anything special)
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I don't really understand why you mention this? If there's a doubt whether you have a car, just slip it in. "I'm driving to the lake for a swim".

Grover_mister said:
so dont make any plans cuz soon we are gonna chill"
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So she shouldn't make plans for this week or the next? Again, give her a specific date or two. If she has plans already, she'll tell you. If she doesn't, and she's interested, it's a given that she won't make other plans.

Anyway, just some thoughts. Don't overthink things either or you'll freeze. You'll make mistakes, but that'll just make you better.
Keep it up and take her down!
 
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