"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how's this for kocky/funny...

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When you introduce yourself to a girl shake her hand, but don't let her hand go. Then you say, "you can let me hand go now." Yes? No? Just a thought.

Doh, there's already a kocky/funny thread, my bad.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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nah thats genrally not considered a good idea
 
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could come off as you're trying too hard, so I wouldn't recommend it. I see where you're tryin to go with it. Instead, if she's hugging you, and you say "Ok, you can let go anytime" or something to that effect while she's up against you... could have a far greater effect. When I do this, they usually just keep holdin on longer ;)
 
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No, usually too little rapport to go with, it may come off very, very wrong.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I get the point, but just like the others say it's not a very good idea if you haven't built any report. You could, of course, keep it a try - but the odds are clearly against you :p

But...when you say bye and give her a hug you could go like "Ok, you can let go anytime", just like Miles Davis said.
 
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Heres the C&F pitch

Heres you: Swing and a miss.
 
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LOL

or you can crash into her at an intersection and when she's all pissed and askin for your information you can go..

"damn baby, slow down here let me get your number we'll go for coffee sometime"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Jason#4
When you introduce yourself to a girl shake her hand, but don't let her hand go. Then you say, "you can let me hand go now." Yes? No? Just a thought.

Doh, there's already a kocky/funny thread, my bad.
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If you do it at the very beginning,it is very very bad.
However,if you have biult rapport and chatted with her, c+f ,humor etc AND THEN.... if you leave and feel like saying "it was great talking to you....****shake hand*** etc... plus getting her number it might work well.
 
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why dont you run her over your car and ask to pay her medical bills??? :p
 
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