"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how's this for kocky/funny...

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When you introduce yourself to a girl shake her hand, but don't let her hand go. Then you say, "you can let me hand go now." Yes? No? Just a thought.

Doh, there's already a kocky/funny thread, my bad.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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nah thats genrally not considered a good idea
 

Miles Davis

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could come off as you're trying too hard, so I wouldn't recommend it. I see where you're tryin to go with it. Instead, if she's hugging you, and you say "Ok, you can let go anytime" or something to that effect while she's up against you... could have a far greater effect. When I do this, they usually just keep holdin on longer ;)
 

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No, usually too little rapport to go with, it may come off very, very wrong.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I get the point, but just like the others say it's not a very good idea if you haven't built any report. You could, of course, keep it a try - but the odds are clearly against you :p

But...when you say bye and give her a hug you could go like "Ok, you can let go anytime", just like Miles Davis said.
 

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Heres the C&F pitch

Heres you: Swing and a miss.
 

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LOL

or you can crash into her at an intersection and when she's all pissed and askin for your information you can go..

"damn baby, slow down here let me get your number we'll go for coffee sometime"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Jason#4
When you introduce yourself to a girl shake her hand, but don't let her hand go. Then you say, "you can let me hand go now." Yes? No? Just a thought.

Doh, there's already a kocky/funny thread, my bad.
If you do it at the very beginning,it is very very bad.
However,if you have biult rapport and chatted with her, c+f ,humor etc AND THEN.... if you leave and feel like saying "it was great talking to you....****shake hand*** etc... plus getting her number it might work well.
 
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why dont you run her over your car and ask to pay her medical bills??? :p
 
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