"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how's this for kocky/funny...

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When you introduce yourself to a girl shake her hand, but don't let her hand go. Then you say, "you can let me hand go now." Yes? No? Just a thought.

Doh, there's already a kocky/funny thread, my bad.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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nah thats genrally not considered a good idea
 
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could come off as you're trying too hard, so I wouldn't recommend it. I see where you're tryin to go with it. Instead, if she's hugging you, and you say "Ok, you can let go anytime" or something to that effect while she's up against you... could have a far greater effect. When I do this, they usually just keep holdin on longer ;)
 
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No, usually too little rapport to go with, it may come off very, very wrong.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I get the point, but just like the others say it's not a very good idea if you haven't built any report. You could, of course, keep it a try - but the odds are clearly against you :p

But...when you say bye and give her a hug you could go like "Ok, you can let go anytime", just like Miles Davis said.
 
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Heres the C&F pitch

Heres you: Swing and a miss.
 
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LOL

or you can crash into her at an intersection and when she's all pissed and askin for your information you can go..

"damn baby, slow down here let me get your number we'll go for coffee sometime"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Jason#4
When you introduce yourself to a girl shake her hand, but don't let her hand go. Then you say, "you can let me hand go now." Yes? No? Just a thought.

Doh, there's already a kocky/funny thread, my bad.
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If you do it at the very beginning,it is very very bad.
However,if you have biult rapport and chatted with her, c+f ,humor etc AND THEN.... if you leave and feel like saying "it was great talking to you....****shake hand*** etc... plus getting her number it might work well.
 
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why dont you run her over your car and ask to pay her medical bills??? :p
 
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