Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
18 is the youngest even though 16 is legal. Girls start to develop something approaching maturity at around 18, so there's the possibility that they won't drive me completely crazy. 
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How young would you go?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Jblitz59 said:Thanks man, this helps reassure me, because I've been thinking of this. My best friend really affected me saying things like just leave her and dont look back.. but I feel like I want to enjoy the ride, I feel like if I control myself it will be a fun rollercoaster of a ride.
So I dont get attached, how many days a week would be max to see her: 1-2?
factor in that I'm out of school and no job so with that I have all this free time on me right now..
I am looking for a job though to take some up.
I find that if I have two girls and I only see them each about once or twice a week (including the weekends) that's enough to keep my heart (and theirs in check). When I call them everyday, see them all the time, someone always catches feelings.
Also remember that if your having good sex and fun times, feelings will be generated by one party eventually no matter how much you space it out. Prepare for that and act accordingly.
Kevin Feng
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I mean, for me personally, I probably wouldn't date a girl that was 18 for obvious lack of similarities in interests, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't mess around with one.
I mean, don't look to society for acceptance in this part of your life, as a human male you're designed to be attracted to young fertile women. Just because you get older doesn't mean you're suddenly attracted to old wrinkly ass women.
Especially when you're starting to learn pick up, it's important that you don't let the age barrier be an issue. Just go with it.
I remember when I was cold approaching using the shotgun dominant method
http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/05/impact-approach-30-seconds-to-make-it.html
I would come across younger girls all the time that were very receptive to this.
-Kevin
I mean, don't look to society for acceptance in this part of your life, as a human male you're designed to be attracted to young fertile women. Just because you get older doesn't mean you're suddenly attracted to old wrinkly ass women.
Especially when you're starting to learn pick up, it's important that you don't let the age barrier be an issue. Just go with it.
I remember when I was cold approaching using the shotgun dominant method
http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/05/impact-approach-30-seconds-to-make-it.html
I would come across younger girls all the time that were very receptive to this.
-Kevin
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
If you're over 21 and trying to game anyone under 18, you're desperate...
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
Hi, how are you? Why don't you have a seat over there?