Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
18 is the youngest even though 16 is legal. Girls start to develop something approaching maturity at around 18, so there's the possibility that they won't drive me completely crazy. 
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How young would you go?
- Thread starter djinhell
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Jblitz59 said:Thanks man, this helps reassure me, because I've been thinking of this. My best friend really affected me saying things like just leave her and dont look back.. but I feel like I want to enjoy the ride, I feel like if I control myself it will be a fun rollercoaster of a ride.
So I dont get attached, how many days a week would be max to see her: 1-2?
factor in that I'm out of school and no job so with that I have all this free time on me right now..
I am looking for a job though to take some up.
I find that if I have two girls and I only see them each about once or twice a week (including the weekends) that's enough to keep my heart (and theirs in check). When I call them everyday, see them all the time, someone always catches feelings.
Also remember that if your having good sex and fun times, feelings will be generated by one party eventually no matter how much you space it out. Prepare for that and act accordingly.
Kevin Feng
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I mean, for me personally, I probably wouldn't date a girl that was 18 for obvious lack of similarities in interests, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't mess around with one.
I mean, don't look to society for acceptance in this part of your life, as a human male you're designed to be attracted to young fertile women. Just because you get older doesn't mean you're suddenly attracted to old wrinkly ass women.
Especially when you're starting to learn pick up, it's important that you don't let the age barrier be an issue. Just go with it.
I remember when I was cold approaching using the shotgun dominant method
http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/05/impact-approach-30-seconds-to-make-it.html
I would come across younger girls all the time that were very receptive to this.
-Kevin
I mean, don't look to society for acceptance in this part of your life, as a human male you're designed to be attracted to young fertile women. Just because you get older doesn't mean you're suddenly attracted to old wrinkly ass women.
Especially when you're starting to learn pick up, it's important that you don't let the age barrier be an issue. Just go with it.
I remember when I was cold approaching using the shotgun dominant method
http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/05/impact-approach-30-seconds-to-make-it.html
I would come across younger girls all the time that were very receptive to this.
-Kevin
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
If you're over 21 and trying to game anyone under 18, you're desperate...
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
Hi, how are you? Why don't you have a seat over there?