"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How young would you go?

Mr_rogers

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18 is the youngest even though 16 is legal. Girls start to develop something approaching maturity at around 18, so there's the possibility that they won't drive me completely crazy. :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Warrior74

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Jblitz59 said:
Thanks man, this helps reassure me, because I've been thinking of this. My best friend really affected me saying things like just leave her and dont look back.. but I feel like I want to enjoy the ride, I feel like if I control myself it will be a fun rollercoaster of a ride.

So I dont get attached, how many days a week would be max to see her: 1-2?
factor in that I'm out of school and no job so with that I have all this free time on me right now..

I am looking for a job though to take some up.

I find that if I have two girls and I only see them each about once or twice a week (including the weekends) that's enough to keep my heart (and theirs in check). When I call them everyday, see them all the time, someone always catches feelings.

Also remember that if your having good sex and fun times, feelings will be generated by one party eventually no matter how much you space it out. Prepare for that and act accordingly.
 

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I mean, for me personally, I probably wouldn't date a girl that was 18 for obvious lack of similarities in interests, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't mess around with one.

I mean, don't look to society for acceptance in this part of your life, as a human male you're designed to be attracted to young fertile women. Just because you get older doesn't mean you're suddenly attracted to old wrinkly ass women.

Especially when you're starting to learn pick up, it's important that you don't let the age barrier be an issue. Just go with it.

I remember when I was cold approaching using the shotgun dominant method

http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/05/impact-approach-30-seconds-to-make-it.html

I would come across younger girls all the time that were very receptive to this.

-Kevin
 

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18 as that's the legal age in my state and hell, I'm only 19 now.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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18 as mentioned, though if it was a ONS and I found out she was 15...it probably wouldn't bother me. Younger than that would freak me out.

I'm 23, BTW.
 
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