Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
18 is the youngest even though 16 is legal. Girls start to develop something approaching maturity at around 18, so there's the possibility that they won't drive me completely crazy. 
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Jblitz59 said:Thanks man, this helps reassure me, because I've been thinking of this. My best friend really affected me saying things like just leave her and dont look back.. but I feel like I want to enjoy the ride, I feel like if I control myself it will be a fun rollercoaster of a ride.
So I dont get attached, how many days a week would be max to see her: 1-2?
factor in that I'm out of school and no job so with that I have all this free time on me right now..
I am looking for a job though to take some up.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.