How would you take this response?

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Texted me today. Some bull**** about being super busy with grad school and no time for anything else.

No response? Or simple “good luck with school”?

Ignore. No magical sentence is going to yield you different results.
 
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Typical.

Respond with honesty "Ok, Not a problem hun. Hit me up when you genuinely have time. Good luck with school." After that text. Delete her number. Proceed with other Women.
Even worth it to tell her “hit me up when you have time”? Her response is saying “I don’t want to make time”, in my opinion. Which really sucks to hear. Thoughts?
 

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Even worth it to tell her “hit me up when you have time”? Her response is saying “I don’t want to make time”, in my opinion. Which really sucks to hear. Thoughts?
It depends on what you want to do. I would do this to put the girl in my "back pocket" while I met plenty of other Women in the meantime. That's why I said delete her number as soon as you send that text. Her number and texts are out of sight and eventually you will forget about her but.... wouldn't surprise me one bit if she texts you weeks down the line to meet up. By this time, you'll have other Women in your stable anyway so it depends on what you want out of it.

The text i laid out shows no aggressiveness and actually shows that it does not bother you. You wished her well and that was that. If she wants you, she will have to come looking for you.
 

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Even worth it to tell her “hit me up when you have time”? Her response is saying “I don’t want to make time”, in my opinion. Which really sucks to hear. Thoughts?
Ignore.
 

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don't msg her back just ignore.

and yes the famous I let you know later is a "soft" no, woman will never say things up front, in a way everything woman do is like cloak and daggers, everything in on low key and nothing in the light, they only drop this when is war, and that only happens when she likes the guy, know he is the better she can get, and know if she is not behaving she will lose the guy, and even so woman tend to have a orbiter backup who willl drop everything to stay with her.

hence why having options, and not worrying about woman will be for your own best interest, if she is not up to your standard you drop her, even if that means be alone
 
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Just to throw it out there - do women ever test guys this way? Tell a guy they’ll “let them know” and then delay letting them know? Don’t mean to reach at straws here, but just a question if others have gone through that before.
Yes some do, but it's a bad sign in my experience. I always give women the space and time to reach out after they give me the "I'll let you know" bit. Most never do. The ones who do usually have low interest and it rarely leads to anything. I did recently have a girl give me a booty call after giving her space, but that's very rare, and she ghosted me a few days after that hookup.

Don't delete numbers. What's the point? She could reach back out and you'll want to know who is messaging you so you can decide what to do.

As for her last txt, it's a clear soft goodbye. I wouldn't respond at all. No need.
 

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It's not worth it to respond at all to women with low interest ime. Don't bother sending some kind of closing message or anything. Delete her number and forget her, if by minimal chance she contacts you again, either don't respond or stop responding if she doesn't ask you out within the first few messages as most likely she is just looking for an ego boost by confirming you are still hooked on her. If you are unable to do this and instead keep thinking about her or rationalizing the scenario, it shows you have a problem yourself.
 
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Texted me today. Some bull**** about being super busy with grad school and no time for anything else.

No response? Or simple “good luck with school”?
Back to DJ mindset 101:

Treat disinterest with amplified disinterest.

Always.

The WORST thing that a woman fears, in my opinion, is being ignored. It fvucks with their head big time and you always maintain the upper hand when you outright ignore them. You cannot go wrong acting as if they don't exist.

I have worked with a handful of very attractive female colleagues for nearly 5 years and have rarely ever acknowledged or conversed with them. I'm always respectful and will say "Hello" when I walk by but for the most part I could care less about them because I'm working and focused on making money.

When your mind is filled with purpose and occupied with making money and accomplishing goals you will never analyze flaking because you will simply regard their actions and behavior as insignificant. Small potatoes compared to the other things you've got going in life.
 

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Even worth it to tell her “hit me up when you have time”? Her response is saying “I don’t want to make time”, in my opinion. Which really sucks to hear. Thoughts?
Dont say nothing else. Thats the end.
 
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Just wait for her to contact you and forget about her in the meantime since the ball is in her park and she knows it is... you don't have to go overboard deciding whether to overcompensate or drop her entirely. Don't fret things too hard.
 
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