"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How would you respond ?

Southbound29

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Chick was a **** buddy to my best friend for a while. Chick moves on and does her thing. Chick pops out of nowhere and throws herself into my field of view several times over the past month to get my attention. I finally take the bait and tell her to come watch the fight with myself and a few friends tomorrow night.

Chick says she would love to " but has to be with her little boy". I know she has a kid but I also know this chick very well and this being tied down by a kid thing is bull****. How would you play this ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Billtx49

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She has a kid. If she cared enough she could find or already knows a babysitter. I say AW.
'Whatever you want to do is fine with me', and NC unless she initiates later forget her.
 
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marmel75

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"OK" and then stop wasting your time with this chick and focus on other women.
 

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Or just don't respond. Communication is open at this point, you reached out......leave it alone until she reaches out again. If she wants it, she knows where to find it.
 

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I have kids, have had to pass on chicks I like because of my girls. I would assume it's a legitimate excuse and just tell her another time. Ask her out again, if that is what you want, and see what happens. If she makes excuses without a counter offer, just walk away from her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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