"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How would you respond ?

Southbound29

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Chick was a **** buddy to my best friend for a while. Chick moves on and does her thing. Chick pops out of nowhere and throws herself into my field of view several times over the past month to get my attention. I finally take the bait and tell her to come watch the fight with myself and a few friends tomorrow night.

Chick says she would love to " but has to be with her little boy". I know she has a kid but I also know this chick very well and this being tied down by a kid thing is bull****. How would you play this ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Billtx49

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She has a kid. If she cared enough she could find or already knows a babysitter. I say AW.
'Whatever you want to do is fine with me', and NC unless she initiates later forget her.
 
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marmel75

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"OK" and then stop wasting your time with this chick and focus on other women.
 

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Or just don't respond. Communication is open at this point, you reached out......leave it alone until she reaches out again. If she wants it, she knows where to find it.
 

RangerMIke

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I have kids, have had to pass on chicks I like because of my girls. I would assume it's a legitimate excuse and just tell her another time. Ask her out again, if that is what you want, and see what happens. If she makes excuses without a counter offer, just walk away from her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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