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How would you respond if a girl said this?

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Yeah, well, yesterday after the game, I was infront of my locker changing shirts, so obviously at one point, I had to take off my shirt. So I'm standing infront of my locker with my shirt off, changing shirts and all of a sudden this senior chick who's also in band comes by and says "Wow, there's a naked man standing in the middle of the hallway.". I didn't know how to take this, perhaps she was teasing me, maybe she was just saying it, to say it, I was the only guy in the hallway at the time and she was looking towards me when she said, so I know it was directed at me.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
Yeah, well, yesterday after the game, I was infront of my locker changing shirts, so obviously at one point, I had to take off my shirt. So I'm standing infront of my locker with my shirt off, changing shirts and all of a sudden this senior chick who's also in band comes by and says "Wow, there's a naked man standing in the middle of the hallway.". I didn't know how to take this, perhaps she was teasing me, maybe she was just saying it, to say it, I was the only guy in the hallway at the time and she was looking towards me when she said, so I know it was directed at me.
I wouldn´t say anything, who cares what someone else is saying. But in case you think she could be interesting for you, then approach her. But then you should also approach her if she wouldn´t say anything.

Don´t wait for approach invitations from girls. If you like her, then approach her and you can say whatever you want.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
Yeah, well, yesterday after the game, I was infront of my locker changing shirts, so obviously at one point, I had to take off my shirt. So I'm standing infront of my locker with my shirt off, changing shirts and all of a sudden this senior chick who's also in band comes by and says "Wow, there's a naked man standing in the middle of the hallway.". I didn't know how to take this, perhaps she was teasing me, maybe she was just saying it, to say it, I was the only guy in the hallway at the time and she was looking towards me when she said, so I know it was directed at me.
depends on her tone of voice ... also , if it were me , I woulda told the h0 "stop looking, I'm not a piece of steak"
 

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Re: Re: How would you respond if a girl said this?

Originally posted by TxCowboy
depends on her tone of voice ... also , if it were me , I woulda told the h0 "stop looking, I'm not a piece of steak"
She was smiling and the tone of her voice, don't know how to describe it, certainly wasn't a negative tone though.
 

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Originally posted by happyfrog
Viper, what did you say to her?
Well, basically - nothing, I had no idea what to say, it's not everyday a girl says something like that to you.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
"I perform at bachelorette parties too..." ;)
hahaha francisco always cracks me up :cheer:
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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That WAS pretty funny, fransico....
I liked [DoN.2.Da.JUaN]'s response too...
 

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Sh*t, I just thought of something else, Viper, USE that as a way to approach her, get a pic of yourself, in the same mode, shirt off, and offer it to her, say, you seemed to like it the first time, figured since you didn't have a camera I'd take this for you, or something like that... make a joke out of it, it'll break the 'ice' on your approach....
 

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"You didn't know? the hallway is my strip club from 12 pm-3pm, invitations ONLY."
 
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