"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How would you respond if a girl said this?

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Yeah, well, yesterday after the game, I was infront of my locker changing shirts, so obviously at one point, I had to take off my shirt. So I'm standing infront of my locker with my shirt off, changing shirts and all of a sudden this senior chick who's also in band comes by and says "Wow, there's a naked man standing in the middle of the hallway.". I didn't know how to take this, perhaps she was teasing me, maybe she was just saying it, to say it, I was the only guy in the hallway at the time and she was looking towards me when she said, so I know it was directed at me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Viper
Yeah, well, yesterday after the game, I was infront of my locker changing shirts, so obviously at one point, I had to take off my shirt. So I'm standing infront of my locker with my shirt off, changing shirts and all of a sudden this senior chick who's also in band comes by and says "Wow, there's a naked man standing in the middle of the hallway.". I didn't know how to take this, perhaps she was teasing me, maybe she was just saying it, to say it, I was the only guy in the hallway at the time and she was looking towards me when she said, so I know it was directed at me.
I wouldn´t say anything, who cares what someone else is saying. But in case you think she could be interesting for you, then approach her. But then you should also approach her if she wouldn´t say anything.

Don´t wait for approach invitations from girls. If you like her, then approach her and you can say whatever you want.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
Yeah, well, yesterday after the game, I was infront of my locker changing shirts, so obviously at one point, I had to take off my shirt. So I'm standing infront of my locker with my shirt off, changing shirts and all of a sudden this senior chick who's also in band comes by and says "Wow, there's a naked man standing in the middle of the hallway.". I didn't know how to take this, perhaps she was teasing me, maybe she was just saying it, to say it, I was the only guy in the hallway at the time and she was looking towards me when she said, so I know it was directed at me.
depends on her tone of voice ... also , if it were me , I woulda told the h0 "stop looking, I'm not a piece of steak"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Re: Re: How would you respond if a girl said this?

Originally posted by TxCowboy
depends on her tone of voice ... also , if it were me , I woulda told the h0 "stop looking, I'm not a piece of steak"
She was smiling and the tone of her voice, don't know how to describe it, certainly wasn't a negative tone though.
 

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Originally posted by happyfrog
Viper, what did you say to her?
Well, basically - nothing, I had no idea what to say, it's not everyday a girl says something like that to you.
 

[DoN.2.Da.JUaN]

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care to join me :p
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
"I perform at bachelorette parties too..." ;)
hahaha francisco always cracks me up :cheer:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That WAS pretty funny, fransico....
I liked [DoN.2.Da.JUaN]'s response too...
 

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Sh*t, I just thought of something else, Viper, USE that as a way to approach her, get a pic of yourself, in the same mode, shirt off, and offer it to her, say, you seemed to like it the first time, figured since you didn't have a camera I'd take this for you, or something like that... make a joke out of it, it'll break the 'ice' on your approach....
 

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"You didn't know? the hallway is my strip club from 12 pm-3pm, invitations ONLY."
 
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