“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How would you react in this situation? (friend rivalry for a girl's attention)

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Shivastorm_88

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I will sum it up very briefly: I was at a friend's house (HB friend) with a bunch of people, as well as MALE friend and HB7. MALE friend was obviously hitting on HB7 (clear as the sky) and I was unleashing C&F attitude on her (not because I was hitting on her, just because it's my regular mindset). She was enjoying it, laughing a bunch and all that, but he was finding it disrespectful and taking her defense, acting white knight-ish. I obviously didn't do anything about it, but at some point he took one of my sandals and threw it in the pool to, I guess, prove a point that I was not treating her properly. I know this is a very trivial event, but I want to know if my reaction was good, or over-reacted.

I simply (and calmly) told him to go get it from the pool, and made him understand (in front of all our friends, humiliating for him) that his behavior was uncalled for and that he didn't need to act like a prick to try to impress HB7. He then called me on my attitude towards her, to which I replied that it was not his job to defend her and if she saw a problem, she would tell me herself, and that again, acting like a prick because of this situation was unwarranted for. In the end, he retrieved it for me, and this was put behind us.

The reason I ask this is I've always have a tendency to let others walk over me, including my friends. I'm changing that, but I need to calibrate at a proper level. I need to find the right level at which I should let things slide VS at the level at which I should take a stand and show that X behavior is unacceptable.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Htienvu

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If he was a true friend I would leave him to it with the girl. Whenever my friend is interested in a girl I'd not go near her.

No point losing a friend over a chick, if this was a good friend!
 
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Your friend was being ridiculous, but you could have said "hey, let's talk in private" and said the same thing. The result would have been the same and you wouldn't have embarrassed your friend as much.
 
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