“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How would you react in this situation? (friend rivalry for a girl's attention)

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Shivastorm_88

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I will sum it up very briefly: I was at a friend's house (HB friend) with a bunch of people, as well as MALE friend and HB7. MALE friend was obviously hitting on HB7 (clear as the sky) and I was unleashing C&F attitude on her (not because I was hitting on her, just because it's my regular mindset). She was enjoying it, laughing a bunch and all that, but he was finding it disrespectful and taking her defense, acting white knight-ish. I obviously didn't do anything about it, but at some point he took one of my sandals and threw it in the pool to, I guess, prove a point that I was not treating her properly. I know this is a very trivial event, but I want to know if my reaction was good, or over-reacted.

I simply (and calmly) told him to go get it from the pool, and made him understand (in front of all our friends, humiliating for him) that his behavior was uncalled for and that he didn't need to act like a prick to try to impress HB7. He then called me on my attitude towards her, to which I replied that it was not his job to defend her and if she saw a problem, she would tell me herself, and that again, acting like a prick because of this situation was unwarranted for. In the end, he retrieved it for me, and this was put behind us.

The reason I ask this is I've always have a tendency to let others walk over me, including my friends. I'm changing that, but I need to calibrate at a proper level. I need to find the right level at which I should let things slide VS at the level at which I should take a stand and show that X behavior is unacceptable.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Htienvu

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If he was a true friend I would leave him to it with the girl. Whenever my friend is interested in a girl I'd not go near her.

No point losing a friend over a chick, if this was a good friend!
 
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JustLurk

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Your friend was being ridiculous, but you could have said "hey, let's talk in private" and said the same thing. The result would have been the same and you wouldn't have embarrassed your friend as much.
 
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