U still have a chance tho... otherwise she would of just ignored u and gave u no explanation. At least she gave u a reason, fake or not
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How would you have played this one out?
- Thread starter Konada
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Floydispink01
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Hey Guru, I pinched the.......'Hey. I'm not much into the back and forth exchange of emails or pen-pal thing. I'd like to meet you for a drink one night this week and get to know each other better. Let me know is that sounds good to you.'......quote from you and copy and pasted it to the girls I opened up to and got three date agreements and they all give me their numbers without me asking. Absolutely no effort on my part.
guru1000
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Floyd, some girls will need greater comfort before scheduling online so using the direct approach is not the most effective method, but the most time-effective method--which, to me, is of greater value.
Time-management is just another effective tool in the DJ toolbox.
After the number, exchange 2-3 texts (for comfort, lower flaking ratio), then ask for the date. Schedule double- or triple-headers for increased closing ratios (greater abundance/time constraint ==> increased "game") in person.
Time-management is just another effective tool in the DJ toolbox.
After the number, exchange 2-3 texts (for comfort, lower flaking ratio), then ask for the date. Schedule double- or triple-headers for increased closing ratios (greater abundance/time constraint ==> increased "game") in person.
Konada
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Got one today: 'Seems like you copy and paste this to every match. I'll pass.'
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
guru1000
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I and others recommended a method so could streamline your double-headers with no need to service thoughts, but here you are thinking.
Evaluation of game plan every so often is prudent, but first you must execute fully.
You have a goal: two-double headers this weekend. The essence of "giving no fvcks" is to be focused ONLY on the goal, and everything else in the background remains in the background.
Evaluation of game plan every so often is prudent, but first you must execute fully.
You have a goal: two-double headers this weekend. The essence of "giving no fvcks" is to be focused ONLY on the goal, and everything else in the background remains in the background.