U still have a chance tho... otherwise she would of just ignored u and gave u no explanation. At least she gave u a reason, fake or not
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How would you have played this one out?
- Thread starter Konada
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Floydispink01
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Hey Guru, I pinched the.......'Hey. I'm not much into the back and forth exchange of emails or pen-pal thing. I'd like to meet you for a drink one night this week and get to know each other better. Let me know is that sounds good to you.'......quote from you and copy and pasted it to the girls I opened up to and got three date agreements and they all give me their numbers without me asking. Absolutely no effort on my part.
guru1000
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Floyd, some girls will need greater comfort before scheduling online so using the direct approach is not the most effective method, but the most time-effective method--which, to me, is of greater value.
Time-management is just another effective tool in the DJ toolbox.
After the number, exchange 2-3 texts (for comfort, lower flaking ratio), then ask for the date. Schedule double- or triple-headers for increased closing ratios (greater abundance/time constraint ==> increased "game") in person.
Time-management is just another effective tool in the DJ toolbox.
After the number, exchange 2-3 texts (for comfort, lower flaking ratio), then ask for the date. Schedule double- or triple-headers for increased closing ratios (greater abundance/time constraint ==> increased "game") in person.
Konada
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Got one today: 'Seems like you copy and paste this to every match. I'll pass.'
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
guru1000
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I and others recommended a method so could streamline your double-headers with no need to service thoughts, but here you are thinking.
Evaluation of game plan every so often is prudent, but first you must execute fully.
You have a goal: two-double headers this weekend. The essence of "giving no fvcks" is to be focused ONLY on the goal, and everything else in the background remains in the background.
Evaluation of game plan every so often is prudent, but first you must execute fully.
You have a goal: two-double headers this weekend. The essence of "giving no fvcks" is to be focused ONLY on the goal, and everything else in the background remains in the background.