U still have a chance tho... otherwise she would of just ignored u and gave u no explanation. At least she gave u a reason, fake or not
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How would you have played this one out?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Floydispink01
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Hey Guru, I pinched the.......'Hey. I'm not much into the back and forth exchange of emails or pen-pal thing. I'd like to meet you for a drink one night this week and get to know each other better. Let me know is that sounds good to you.'......quote from you and copy and pasted it to the girls I opened up to and got three date agreements and they all give me their numbers without me asking. Absolutely no effort on my part.
guru1000
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Floyd, some girls will need greater comfort before scheduling online so using the direct approach is not the most effective method, but the most time-effective method--which, to me, is of greater value.
Time-management is just another effective tool in the DJ toolbox.
After the number, exchange 2-3 texts (for comfort, lower flaking ratio), then ask for the date. Schedule double- or triple-headers for increased closing ratios (greater abundance/time constraint ==> increased "game") in person.
Time-management is just another effective tool in the DJ toolbox.
After the number, exchange 2-3 texts (for comfort, lower flaking ratio), then ask for the date. Schedule double- or triple-headers for increased closing ratios (greater abundance/time constraint ==> increased "game") in person.
Konada
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Got one today: 'Seems like you copy and paste this to every match. I'll pass.'
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
guru1000
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I and others recommended a method so could streamline your double-headers with no need to service thoughts, but here you are thinking.
Evaluation of game plan every so often is prudent, but first you must execute fully.
You have a goal: two-double headers this weekend. The essence of "giving no fvcks" is to be focused ONLY on the goal, and everything else in the background remains in the background.
Evaluation of game plan every so often is prudent, but first you must execute fully.
You have a goal: two-double headers this weekend. The essence of "giving no fvcks" is to be focused ONLY on the goal, and everything else in the background remains in the background.