U still have a chance tho... otherwise she would of just ignored u and gave u no explanation. At least she gave u a reason, fake or not
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How would you have played this one out?
- Thread starter Konada
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Floydispink01
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Hey Guru, I pinched the.......'Hey. I'm not much into the back and forth exchange of emails or pen-pal thing. I'd like to meet you for a drink one night this week and get to know each other better. Let me know is that sounds good to you.'......quote from you and copy and pasted it to the girls I opened up to and got three date agreements and they all give me their numbers without me asking. Absolutely no effort on my part.
guru1000
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Floyd, some girls will need greater comfort before scheduling online so using the direct approach is not the most effective method, but the most time-effective method--which, to me, is of greater value.
Time-management is just another effective tool in the DJ toolbox.
After the number, exchange 2-3 texts (for comfort, lower flaking ratio), then ask for the date. Schedule double- or triple-headers for increased closing ratios (greater abundance/time constraint ==> increased "game") in person.
Time-management is just another effective tool in the DJ toolbox.
After the number, exchange 2-3 texts (for comfort, lower flaking ratio), then ask for the date. Schedule double- or triple-headers for increased closing ratios (greater abundance/time constraint ==> increased "game") in person.
Konada
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Got one today: 'Seems like you copy and paste this to every match. I'll pass.'
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
guru1000
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I and others recommended a method so could streamline your double-headers with no need to service thoughts, but here you are thinking.
Evaluation of game plan every so often is prudent, but first you must execute fully.
You have a goal: two-double headers this weekend. The essence of "giving no fvcks" is to be focused ONLY on the goal, and everything else in the background remains in the background.
Evaluation of game plan every so often is prudent, but first you must execute fully.
You have a goal: two-double headers this weekend. The essence of "giving no fvcks" is to be focused ONLY on the goal, and everything else in the background remains in the background.