i know we are, but its a sad state of affairs when telling someone you like them will result in them losing interest
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How would you guys handle this text?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
AureliusMaximus
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After just meeting a few times and saying something like that; it is like a red flag on a communist parade...
Too many of them lol.
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In this situation I don't think so at all. The mistake is when a guy is overinvested when she is not and start saying all this stuff that she's not feeling. In this situation she's feeling it and reciprocating it would be positively received.
Context matters. In a different context I would agree with you, but not this one.
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An ambiguous answer is all you need.
I respectfully disagree, Me nor anyone I know, has never had a good experience from telling a woman anything. in under 3 months
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Keep the momentum going!!!
She said the “L” word because she wants to see your level of commitment.
You do not have to say it back, but you should do something to show your level of commitment now!
If I were in your situation, I would seriously go Tiffany’s and get her some earrings at the very low end price point.
Surprise her with that gift then the momentum keeps going and you do not have to say the “L” word.
Women are very perceptive. Show too many signs of pulling back your commitment level and it is game over. The emotional connection she has to you is lost forever.
The “L” word is a giant test. If you want her, do not fail it.
She said the “L” word because she wants to see your level of commitment.
You do not have to say it back, but you should do something to show your level of commitment now!
If I were in your situation, I would seriously go Tiffany’s and get her some earrings at the very low end price point.
Surprise her with that gift then the momentum keeps going and you do not have to say the “L” word.
Women are very perceptive. Show too many signs of pulling back your commitment level and it is game over. The emotional connection she has to you is lost forever.
The “L” word is a giant test. If you want her, do not fail it.
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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To me, love is a measurement of convenience; we have desire for those who are going to make our lives more convenient. Declarations of Love to me means that the convenience you provide is on another level, but it's not enough.
All you can do is avoid filling their heads with bull**** and be honest
All you can do is avoid filling their heads with bull**** and be honest
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I once dated a girl that told me all the time she loved me. Never once did I tell her. My reply was "you're a sweetie" or some **** like that. I wasn't looking to fall in love. I just wanted fun times and a hot girl.
My response never caused any issues in the 2yrs we were together. She did voice her displeasure to others, but never me. Stay true to yourself and if they have a problem with it then so be it. There are always more out there.
My response never caused any issues in the 2yrs we were together. She did voice her displeasure to others, but never me. Stay true to yourself and if they have a problem with it then so be it. There are always more out there.