"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How would you feel about being a househusband?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Im fine going to the supermarket to get the food and cook my meals but there is no chance in hell I would let a woman be a bread winner in my house (that would be her house in that case).
I kill the spiders,she changes the diapers thats my concept of family.
Are you gonna dress your son in the morning and fix his hair? and if he behaves badly you will let him know that when his mother will come in evening he will be punished?
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This is my problem with it. On the one hand, it sounds like most guys here are living on their own, so presumably they are doing their own housework anyway, so that shouldn't be an issue.Who Dares Win said:
But I don't want to raise kids. And I don't want to be in a lower financial position than my wife/partner.
That said, I will be retiring in a few years, and one of the things I do plan on doing is spending more time on keeping the house up, as far as being clean, organized, and maintained. I don't have a problem with this, but I do wonder sometimes how it is going to affect my relationship. Is she going to resent my staying home while she has to work? Because although I provide a house, I don't pay her bills, health insurance, etc.
What is the difference between a gold digging gigolo and Mr. Mom ? Is there a difference ?
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I think I know this one.Rubirosa said:
Both are the figments of jooish filmmakers imaginations. But only one is still discussed by self hating young progtards as a possible reality. Real life though sees both fail miserably.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.