"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How would you feel about being a househusband?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Who Dares Win
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Im fine going to the supermarket to get the food and cook my meals but there is no chance in hell I would let a woman be a bread winner in my house (that would be her house in that case).
I kill the spiders,she changes the diapers thats my concept of family.
Are you gonna dress your son in the morning and fix his hair? and if he behaves badly you will let him know that when his mother will come in evening he will be punished?
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This is my problem with it. On the one hand, it sounds like most guys here are living on their own, so presumably they are doing their own housework anyway, so that shouldn't be an issue.Who Dares Win said:
But I don't want to raise kids. And I don't want to be in a lower financial position than my wife/partner.
That said, I will be retiring in a few years, and one of the things I do plan on doing is spending more time on keeping the house up, as far as being clean, organized, and maintained. I don't have a problem with this, but I do wonder sometimes how it is going to affect my relationship. Is she going to resent my staying home while she has to work? Because although I provide a house, I don't pay her bills, health insurance, etc.
What is the difference between a gold digging gigolo and Mr. Mom ? Is there a difference ?
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I think I know this one.Rubirosa said:
Both are the figments of jooish filmmakers imaginations. But only one is still discussed by self hating young progtards as a possible reality. Real life though sees both fail miserably.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.