"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How would you feel about being a househusband?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Who Dares Win
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Im fine going to the supermarket to get the food and cook my meals but there is no chance in hell I would let a woman be a bread winner in my house (that would be her house in that case).
I kill the spiders,she changes the diapers thats my concept of family.
Are you gonna dress your son in the morning and fix his hair? and if he behaves badly you will let him know that when his mother will come in evening he will be punished?
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This is my problem with it. On the one hand, it sounds like most guys here are living on their own, so presumably they are doing their own housework anyway, so that shouldn't be an issue.Who Dares Win said:
But I don't want to raise kids. And I don't want to be in a lower financial position than my wife/partner.
That said, I will be retiring in a few years, and one of the things I do plan on doing is spending more time on keeping the house up, as far as being clean, organized, and maintained. I don't have a problem with this, but I do wonder sometimes how it is going to affect my relationship. Is she going to resent my staying home while she has to work? Because although I provide a house, I don't pay her bills, health insurance, etc.
What is the difference between a gold digging gigolo and Mr. Mom ? Is there a difference ?
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I think I know this one.Rubirosa said:
Both are the figments of jooish filmmakers imaginations. But only one is still discussed by self hating young progtards as a possible reality. Real life though sees both fail miserably.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.