"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How would you feel about being a househusband?

Scormus

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Beautiful women marry a high flying executive.

Ugly women become a high flying executive.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Who Dares Win

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Forget it, not gonna happen because of me even before than all the conseguences arising from having her in your role.

Im fine going to the supermarket to get the food and cook my meals but there is no chance in hell I would let a woman be a bread winner in my house (that would be her house in that case).

I kill the spiders,she changes the diapers thats my concept of family.

Are you gonna dress your son in the morning and fix his hair? and if he behaves badly you will let him know that when his mother will come in evening he will be punished?
 

zekko

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Who Dares Win said:
Im fine going to the supermarket to get the food and cook my meals but there is no chance in hell I would let a woman be a bread winner in my house (that would be her house in that case).
This is my problem with it. On the one hand, it sounds like most guys here are living on their own, so presumably they are doing their own housework anyway, so that shouldn't be an issue.

But I don't want to raise kids. And I don't want to be in a lower financial position than my wife/partner.

That said, I will be retiring in a few years, and one of the things I do plan on doing is spending more time on keeping the house up, as far as being clean, organized, and maintained. I don't have a problem with this, but I do wonder sometimes how it is going to affect my relationship. Is she going to resent my staying home while she has to work? Because although I provide a house, I don't pay her bills, health insurance, etc.
 

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What if there's no kids involved, and the woman is independently wealthy (doesnt need to work) ? There is a relationship, but she has the financial advantage. Of course, she will always have the advantage of control if one becomes a gigolo just living off her ....
What is the difference between a gold digging gigolo and Mr. Mom ? Is there a difference ?
 

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Rubirosa said:
What is the difference between a gold digging gigolo and Mr. Mom ? Is there a difference ?
I think I know this one.

Both are the figments of jooish filmmakers imaginations. But only one is still discussed by self hating young progtards as a possible reality. Real life though sees both fail miserably.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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