Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How would you end it ?

mv.89

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So a simple question. I have read that don't let women treat you like dirt or disrespect you. If you think the women is stepping over the line and has been flaking on and on

How do you end it ? Take out all the frustration on her? Tell her she's just a b!tch with not enough self esteem to meet in person

or just be like Okay w.e Thanks for wasting my time,

or just stop texting ?

Sometimes we know that a girl isn't even worth it and we still try to score her and then end up getting flaked on cuz I thought if you meet em once you can bag em and take

treat them in a similar manner to make them feel how we felt. I've improved a lot after reading on here but this thing I wanted to ask some veteran DJs

So how do you guys go about it ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mv.89 said:
So a simple question. I have read that don't let women treat you like dirt or disrespect you. If you think the women is stepping over the line and has been flaking on and on

How do you end it ? Take out all the frustration on her? Tell her she's just a b!tch with not enough self esteem to meet in person

or just be like Okay w.e Thanks for wasting my time,

or just stop texting ?

Sometimes we know that a girl isn't even worth it and we still try to score her and then end up getting flaked on cuz I thought if you meet em once you can bag em and take

treat them in a similar manner to make them feel how we felt. I've improved a lot after reading on here but this thing I wanted to ask some veteran DJs

So how do you guys go about it ?

i would just go ghost and delete her number and never answer her calls or messages
 

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So basically keeping frustration to ourselves. I understand some would say never let her get to a point where she becomes a frustration but sometimes we get carried away and end result is abysmal. In that scenario, still being a ghost the MO?
 

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Stop talking to her and give extremely short replies to her , just the be polite.
 

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Simply cutting off contact is sometimes the most appropriate action but I think it's more satisfying to be direct and tell her exactly the reason you're ending it, that she's been flaking or whatever. sends a clearer message. Just as long as you don't come off as bitter about it, just talk about it like you're getting rid of a toaster that doesn't work anymore.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mv.89 said:
So how do you guys go about it ?
Just leave and trade up to a better girl.

The worst thing you can do to a girl who is stuffing you around, is to find another one and look like you're having a lot more fun than when you're with her.
 

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I think it's more satisfying to be direct and tell her exactly the reason you're ending it, that she's been flaking or whatever. sends a clearer message. Just as long as you don't come off as bitter about it

Oxymoron^

If you want to tell her off, shes clearly phased you. Unlike a relationship where your occasional thunderbolt should be feared...this girl will just laugh and you look like a chump.

Follow zinc advice. NC her.
 

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Unless you're face to face, don't bother with telling her off. Just delete her off and don't answer texts or calls. If you bump into her, then you say it to her face, smile, and walk away. Doing over text or a phone call is girly, so don't bother.
 

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Just deleting her off seems so unsatisfying , I mean she already has no interest doesn't that mean she couldn't care less about not getting a text from us ?

But I understand if we actually say something bitter or curse her off it'll make us come out as desperate and all
 

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I mean she already has no interest doesn't that mean she couldn't care less about not getting a text from us ?

Who gives a sh1t if she cares or not.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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