"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How would you end it ?

mv.89

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So a simple question. I have read that don't let women treat you like dirt or disrespect you. If you think the women is stepping over the line and has been flaking on and on

How do you end it ? Take out all the frustration on her? Tell her she's just a b!tch with not enough self esteem to meet in person

or just be like Okay w.e Thanks for wasting my time,

or just stop texting ?

Sometimes we know that a girl isn't even worth it and we still try to score her and then end up getting flaked on cuz I thought if you meet em once you can bag em and take

treat them in a similar manner to make them feel how we felt. I've improved a lot after reading on here but this thing I wanted to ask some veteran DJs

So how do you guys go about it ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mv.89 said:
So a simple question. I have read that don't let women treat you like dirt or disrespect you. If you think the women is stepping over the line and has been flaking on and on

How do you end it ? Take out all the frustration on her? Tell her she's just a b!tch with not enough self esteem to meet in person

or just be like Okay w.e Thanks for wasting my time,

or just stop texting ?

Sometimes we know that a girl isn't even worth it and we still try to score her and then end up getting flaked on cuz I thought if you meet em once you can bag em and take

treat them in a similar manner to make them feel how we felt. I've improved a lot after reading on here but this thing I wanted to ask some veteran DJs

So how do you guys go about it ?

i would just go ghost and delete her number and never answer her calls or messages
 

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So basically keeping frustration to ourselves. I understand some would say never let her get to a point where she becomes a frustration but sometimes we get carried away and end result is abysmal. In that scenario, still being a ghost the MO?
 

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Stop talking to her and give extremely short replies to her , just the be polite.
 

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Simply cutting off contact is sometimes the most appropriate action but I think it's more satisfying to be direct and tell her exactly the reason you're ending it, that she's been flaking or whatever. sends a clearer message. Just as long as you don't come off as bitter about it, just talk about it like you're getting rid of a toaster that doesn't work anymore.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mv.89 said:
So how do you guys go about it ?
Just leave and trade up to a better girl.

The worst thing you can do to a girl who is stuffing you around, is to find another one and look like you're having a lot more fun than when you're with her.
 

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I think it's more satisfying to be direct and tell her exactly the reason you're ending it, that she's been flaking or whatever. sends a clearer message. Just as long as you don't come off as bitter about it

Oxymoron^

If you want to tell her off, shes clearly phased you. Unlike a relationship where your occasional thunderbolt should be feared...this girl will just laugh and you look like a chump.

Follow zinc advice. NC her.
 

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Unless you're face to face, don't bother with telling her off. Just delete her off and don't answer texts or calls. If you bump into her, then you say it to her face, smile, and walk away. Doing over text or a phone call is girly, so don't bother.
 

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Just deleting her off seems so unsatisfying , I mean she already has no interest doesn't that mean she couldn't care less about not getting a text from us ?

But I understand if we actually say something bitter or curse her off it'll make us come out as desperate and all
 

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I mean she already has no interest doesn't that mean she couldn't care less about not getting a text from us ?

Who gives a sh1t if she cares or not.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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