"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How would you deal with this situation?

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Okay, yesterday there was this one chick (HB9) on my schoolbus. I was sitting in the back of the bus and she was sitting one seat in front of me and she was listening to her mp3 player. I really wanted to approach her after we got out of the bus, but the moment she left the bus her friends were already there and she started talking to them, so I didn´t approach.

Would you guys have approached her earlier? If yes, how?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"hi, what are you listening to?" when she was sitting on the bus.
 
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"I really wanted to approach her after we got out of the bus, but the moment she left the bus her friends were already there and she started talking to them, so I didn´t approach."

See, this is the shyt I'm talking about.

If you would just be in sexual state, you won't even have fears, insecurities, or other bullshyt going through your head like this...you'll be too busy licking your lips, grabbing your dyck, and massaging her back.

I mean, what is it.......what's so hard about it again, I must ask?
 
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DJF AGAIN! said:
"I really wanted to approach her after we got out of the bus, but the moment she left the bus her friends were already there and she started talking to them, so I didn´t approach."

See, this is the shyt I'm talking about.

If you would just be in sexual state, you won't even have fears, insecurities, or other bullshyt going through your head like this...you'll be too busy licking your lips, grabbing your dyck, and massaging her back.

I mean, what is it.......what's so hard about it again, I must ask?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i know CHris.......but use this for future reference, DJF Again's advice is gold

its not what u say, but its how u feel when u say it
 
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