"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How would you deal with this situation?

ChrizZ

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Okay, yesterday there was this one chick (HB9) on my schoolbus. I was sitting in the back of the bus and she was sitting one seat in front of me and she was listening to her mp3 player. I really wanted to approach her after we got out of the bus, but the moment she left the bus her friends were already there and she started talking to them, so I didn´t approach.

Would you guys have approached her earlier? If yes, how?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"hi, what are you listening to?" when she was sitting on the bus.
 

DJF AGAIN!

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"I really wanted to approach her after we got out of the bus, but the moment she left the bus her friends were already there and she started talking to them, so I didn´t approach."

See, this is the shyt I'm talking about.

If you would just be in sexual state, you won't even have fears, insecurities, or other bullshyt going through your head like this...you'll be too busy licking your lips, grabbing your dyck, and massaging her back.

I mean, what is it.......what's so hard about it again, I must ask?
 

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DJF AGAIN! said:
"I really wanted to approach her after we got out of the bus, but the moment she left the bus her friends were already there and she started talking to them, so I didn´t approach."

See, this is the shyt I'm talking about.

If you would just be in sexual state, you won't even have fears, insecurities, or other bullshyt going through your head like this...you'll be too busy licking your lips, grabbing your dyck, and massaging her back.

I mean, what is it.......what's so hard about it again, I must ask?

100% truth
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i know CHris.......but use this for future reference, DJF Again's advice is gold

its not what u say, but its how u feel when u say it
 
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