"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay, yesterday there was this one chick (HB9) on my schoolbus. I was sitting in the back of the bus and she was sitting one seat in front of me and she was listening to her mp3 player. I really wanted to approach her after we got out of the bus, but the moment she left the bus her friends were already there and she started talking to them, so I didn´t approach.

Would you guys have approached her earlier? If yes, how?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"hi, what are you listening to?" when she was sitting on the bus.
 
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"I really wanted to approach her after we got out of the bus, but the moment she left the bus her friends were already there and she started talking to them, so I didn´t approach."

See, this is the shyt I'm talking about.

If you would just be in sexual state, you won't even have fears, insecurities, or other bullshyt going through your head like this...you'll be too busy licking your lips, grabbing your dyck, and massaging her back.

I mean, what is it.......what's so hard about it again, I must ask?
 
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DJF AGAIN! said:
"I really wanted to approach her after we got out of the bus, but the moment she left the bus her friends were already there and she started talking to them, so I didn´t approach."

See, this is the shyt I'm talking about.

If you would just be in sexual state, you won't even have fears, insecurities, or other bullshyt going through your head like this...you'll be too busy licking your lips, grabbing your dyck, and massaging her back.

I mean, what is it.......what's so hard about it again, I must ask?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i know CHris.......but use this for future reference, DJF Again's advice is gold

its not what u say, but its how u feel when u say it
 
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