"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how would you approach this situation?

AmericanMuscle

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2 girls in my chem class, sit next to them everyday. both slim blondes, very attractive. one day i introduced myself, and now they say hi to me and bye sometimes, and i try to make conversation with them and such, and they saw pictures of my car on my laptop and were asking about it. i offered to take them for a ride one day, one of them said she'd like that.

im not really sure how to like take it to the next level, i.e. ask for a number, or ask if she wants to hang out or something?

im not sure how to get to the next step, how to pursue it, or anything like that. what would you guys do?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well, I dont know how disciplined your chem class is. But in my school its almost deathpenalty to talk during teoretic classes. But when we laborate in chem, then u can tease and talk as much as you'd like to. Just go for it man. Dont wait for "the perfect moment" cause it will never come. Ask her what you want to ask, say what you want to say. If she doesn't like what you're saying, then u know she is not for you. Easy as hell. ;) good luck
 

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ask them what they r doing after class, ask em if they r free and would like to grab lunch or a snack or nething.. everyday u wait is another day closer to "Friendship zone"
 
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