"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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how would you approach this situation?

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2 girls in my chem class, sit next to them everyday. both slim blondes, very attractive. one day i introduced myself, and now they say hi to me and bye sometimes, and i try to make conversation with them and such, and they saw pictures of my car on my laptop and were asking about it. i offered to take them for a ride one day, one of them said she'd like that.

im not really sure how to like take it to the next level, i.e. ask for a number, or ask if she wants to hang out or something?

im not sure how to get to the next step, how to pursue it, or anything like that. what would you guys do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well, I dont know how disciplined your chem class is. But in my school its almost deathpenalty to talk during teoretic classes. But when we laborate in chem, then u can tease and talk as much as you'd like to. Just go for it man. Dont wait for "the perfect moment" cause it will never come. Ask her what you want to ask, say what you want to say. If she doesn't like what you're saying, then u know she is not for you. Easy as hell. ;) good luck
 

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ask them what they r doing after class, ask em if they r free and would like to grab lunch or a snack or nething.. everyday u wait is another day closer to "Friendship zone"
 
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