"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how would you approach this situation?

AmericanMuscle

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2 girls in my chem class, sit next to them everyday. both slim blondes, very attractive. one day i introduced myself, and now they say hi to me and bye sometimes, and i try to make conversation with them and such, and they saw pictures of my car on my laptop and were asking about it. i offered to take them for a ride one day, one of them said she'd like that.

im not really sure how to like take it to the next level, i.e. ask for a number, or ask if she wants to hang out or something?

im not sure how to get to the next step, how to pursue it, or anything like that. what would you guys do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well, I dont know how disciplined your chem class is. But in my school its almost deathpenalty to talk during teoretic classes. But when we laborate in chem, then u can tease and talk as much as you'd like to. Just go for it man. Dont wait for "the perfect moment" cause it will never come. Ask her what you want to ask, say what you want to say. If she doesn't like what you're saying, then u know she is not for you. Easy as hell. ;) good luck
 

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ask them what they r doing after class, ask em if they r free and would like to grab lunch or a snack or nething.. everyday u wait is another day closer to "Friendship zone"
 
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