Never take it seriously.
Her: “How many women have you slept with”
Me: “I’m.... a virgin.” *mischievous smile”
Then I burst out laughing to where they realize I’m not answering them seriously. They’ll usually smile/laugh with me and say smth like
Her: “No you’re not.” or “No reeaalllyy”
Me: “Stay away from me, woman! I am a man of God!”
And because of how I am, we usually end up laughing lol
Then you just flip it on them—
Me: “Why? How many women have YOU been with?”
And that’s how we get to the topic of her sexuality and then **** starts to spice up a little. Tease her if she’s never been with a chick before like “oh come on, you can’t tell me you haven’t at least THOUGHT about it” and a lot of times they’ll succumb to social pressure and start talking about **** like this or at least start to become more interested in women to feel like she’s not missing out or that she’s a ‘normal’ girl who is just ‘like everyone else’, i.e. fitting in.
After that you can sexualize the situation even more and yeah. This is kinda how I got all the girls at my old job to start slapping each other’s asses and twerk and play with each other’s butts and **** lol.
‘twas a strange place....