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Girls usually like to ask how many girls have you been with? I think we all agree answering truthfully not a way to go here. What would you answer?

There has also been cases when girls ask me have you ever paid for sex? How would one approach this?

Are girls trying to gauge our SMV by asking this or what?
 

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Girls usually like to ask how many girls have you been with? I think we all agree answering truthfully not a way to go here. What would you answer?

There has also been cases when girls ask me have you ever paid for sex? How would one approach this?

Are girls trying to gauge our SMV by asking this or what?
I always exagerate on the first answer. Reply with other questions. Today? Last week? Just Blondes?

For the second question just state jokingly "Oh we definitely pay one way or the other!"
 

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“I lost count, I only remember the ones who were good in bed”.. which is actually true but they don’t think so.
 

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Always joke about it and say something like
“101 or 102 or maybe was 103 ? I don’t know , i lost the number after the 100th” . Just joke about it .
 

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take a look on your watch and ask in the last what? 5 hours?

ask why you want to know?

after sometime you kinda stop counting

or don't bother to even answer, but if you are serious being vague is the best you can do
 
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They're both sh!t tests.
So you either answer her in a direct but firm masculine way or you give her indirect answers.
You can even combine the two.

How many girls have you been with?
(Direct Answer) That's none of your damn business!
(Indirect Answer) How many guys have you been with?

Have you ever paid for sex?
(Direct) HELLLLLLLLLLL NO!
(Indirect) Have you?
 

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Lol. I bet that's not a question women get asked very often.
had that asked once, I just said I don't need.

hell I should have asked that, would be funny
 

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Divorced guys got it easy on the paid for sex question... "she got half my stuff so yeah..."

As an older guy I have NEVER been asked the number question...
 
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If it's a great connection and we vibe I'll be brutally honest with her because I know she can take it. If I sense she's insecure I'll be playful and never tell. But honestly when it's a great connection she doesn't dare ask things that might disqualify her.

how many girls have you been with?
'how many do you think?'
Her: "Lol I don't know! 50? Tell me."
'yeah 50' *start touching her*
Her: *stops me* "no tell me really."
'alright... 50 and a half. There was this midget in Mexico...'
I just go on with playful silly answers until she realizes she won't find out.

have you ever paid for sex?

Me: 'nice try. That'll be $200.' *hold out my hand*

The answers to both questions aren't important for having a good time for one night or for a lifelong relationship. Its a good opportunity to gauge her further by playfully dismissing the question. Does she realize how useless the answers are? Does she get mad? Does she laugh it off and take the hint? Does she try to get her way like a brat? Does she bet on red or black?

Takes the hint and respects my wish? Points.
Kills the mood by pushing the issue? Demoted.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Never take it seriously.

Her: “How many women have you slept with”
Me: “I’m.... a virgin.” *mischievous smile”

Then I burst out laughing to where they realize I’m not answering them seriously. They’ll usually smile/laugh with me and say smth like

Her: “No you’re not.” or “No reeaalllyy”
Me: “Stay away from me, woman! I am a man of God!”

And because of how I am, we usually end up laughing lol

Then you just flip it on them—

Me: “Why? How many women have YOU been with?”

And that’s how we get to the topic of her sexuality and then **** starts to spice up a little. Tease her if she’s never been with a chick before like “oh come on, you can’t tell me you haven’t at least THOUGHT about it” and a lot of times they’ll succumb to social pressure and start talking about **** like this or at least start to become more interested in women to feel like she’s not missing out or that she’s a ‘normal’ girl who is just ‘like everyone else’, i.e. fitting in.

After that you can sexualize the situation even more and yeah. This is kinda how I got all the girls at my old job to start slapping each other’s asses and twerk and play with each other’s butts and **** lol.

‘twas a strange place....
 

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Girls usually like to ask how many girls have you been with? I think we all agree answering truthfully not a way to go here. What would you answer?

There has also been cases when girls ask me have you ever paid for sex? How would one approach this?

Are girls trying to gauge our SMV by asking this or what?
When I did reveal it, It backfires on me big time
Since then I stick to Tommasi rule:

"NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover"


I just brush it off with some silly answer, that most of the time do the job.
 
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"I dont kiss and tell"
 
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